Sunday, March 18, 2007

A New Name and Proof of Global Warming

Name change? So, our next door neighbors, Jeff and Debbie, think that my name is Susan. They've called me Susan on three occasions and I have yet to correct them. Once as I walked away with Maggie and was beckoned back to show Jeff the dog, once when Jeff got home from work and yelled, "Hey Susan" to me, and once to Justin..."Hey, we saw Susan walking the new puppy." Each time has seemed an inopportune time to correct them, so I just continue to let them call me by the OTHER most common 'S' name in America. I'm not sure how long I will be able to carry this out as we have been invited to join them in a backyard get together once the weather gets warm. But then again, warm weather may not really exist here...

Bipolar weather...Last week we had a 70 degree day that ended with a very brief 3.6 magnitude earthquake. The next day...SNOW and a tornado 40 miles away in a neighboring county! What the hell? The following day...massive rainstorms. This place is on crack. It's been in the thirties for four days straight now. Well, now that I have referred to the weather insensitively as bipolar and on crack, lets move on to the next subject, shall we.

Music: At this moment, I think people need to pay more attention to Amos Lee and Citizen Cope. They're both amazing. And while I dig Mat Kearney, he doesn't seem to need a shout out because he's doing pretty well commercially. So come on, find the love for those two! Oh, I also love this song called Young Folks by Peter Bjorn and John. Listen to it!

Dreams: A friend of mine was recently put in a shitty position by her then boyfriend (also a friend of mine, but since that event, well, I'll keep my mouth shut), and I still haven't let the thought go that I want to call him and yell at him. But alas, it's not really my business EXCEPT for that he needs to give her something back so that she can actually come visit me! Well, I had a dream last night that he walked into a bar and I poured my drink all over him. I guess that will have to be my revenge for now.

Here's my sappy ode to you all: Being far away from Oregon again makes me realize how many great friends I have. Some I have known 17 years, others only one or two. Not to be a MySpace dork, but it has been a great way to keep me from going absolutely insane while I am 2400 miles away from all of you. I still get to watch babies get bigger and everyone's lives as they develop and change. Anyway, I just appreciate that I haven't been written off because I am so far away. Besides coming home on trips, I hope we will actually land back in Oregon for good one day. And remember, we have a couple of guest rooms here for visitors!

Alright, that's all for now. Congratulations to Robin for selling her old house and landing an awesome new one. I can't wait to see it! And to my sister Lexy who was hit in the face on a line drive last month, had to have surgery as a result last week, and still went on to pitch a no hitter this week for Utah State. She's hardcore. Have a great week all!

Thursday, March 01, 2007

You Want to Know What I Think?

Well, I am irritated. Many of you have seen the story about the twelve year old boy who just died because of a 'toothache' that didn't get taken care of soon enough. This resulted in an infection that travelled to his brain, eventually killing him. I imagine that there are a lot of people out there who will chalk this up to bad parenting, but I urge anyone thinking that way to pause, read the story, and look at the crisis that is a lack of quality healthcare in America.

While working with foster kids last year, it was always a struggle to find a dentist who would take them on, even when they had teeth in obvious need of care (which was often). Most kids came in with plenty of cavities and decay, and it would still be three months out before they had a chance to sit in a dentist's chair. I had one kid with a tooth abscess, on the Oregon Health Plan, and they still wouldn't take him on a walk in emergency basis. One month after he joined our program, he was still dealing with issues related to his tooth because no dentist would complete needed treatment in one session. It was ridiculous. Deamonte Driver's death could have clearly been prevented.

On another note, I am increasingly irritated that I have to witness another 20 months with Bush as our president. I feel that he is fighting a war that his daddy left behind when he got the short stick in 1992. How does this man acquire so much power to do what he wants, whenever he wants, when so many people disagree with him. Can't someone stop this sputtering idiot? I have friends who have been a part of this war, probably disagree with me, and enjoy their time in the service. I just think too many innocent people are dying. How can we justify little kids and innocent bystanders getting bombed, maimed, and killed.

Okay, a little more. I am starting to see commercials for school loans that you can get OAC and then pay off after college. The one I have seen showcases an African American man who says he never thought he'd have the resources to go to college. THEN, I watch a 20/20 episode a month ago that follows a family with a teenage son going to high school full time, working every other waking moment, and hoping he can go to college, but thinking there is no way he will be able to afford it. So my reaction...why is Federal Aid for college so under advertised? I remember being a young teen thinking there was no way in the world I would ever be able to go to college because my family didn't have money. All the movies I watched showed struggling kids who only made it on athletic or academic scholarships, but never the FAFSA. Most kids I worked with last year had no idea what a FAFSA was. High schools and social programs need to make this funding source more available and user friendly to their kids.

On that note, ANY OF MY FRIENDS IN SOCIAL SERVICE...you can get a refund on your school loans for working with at risk youth and low income families. I found this out in the fall, filed paperwork, and had a BIG credit on my school loan 6 weeks later. You can apply every year, and it is easy. Contact me if you need help doing it.

And lastly, having worked in an office setting for the past month, I clearly realize that I need to work in social service again. I feel guilty everyday for not working with kids and families. Its like a part of me is missing. True, social service has its moments of absolute burnout, but I just don't think the corporate slave culture is going to ever cut it for me. And why is everyone in corporate culture so damn pissed all the time. The camaraderie among coworkers is quite lacking in comparison to the 'warm fuzzy' liberals I have worked with all my life. Not to say there aren't some nice people, but it sure is a different environment than what I am used to.

Okay one more lastly...I am currently in a flood and flash flood warning zone here in Ohio. See, all this snow has been sitting around in freezing temps and suddenly the temp has spiked to 45 degrees with tons of rain. What the fithifuh? Man, I miss me some Oregon.